Dear Baby Girl,
Momma here. We have waited so patiently and anxiously for you. But there is one thing I want to tell you, even though you won’t understand this or get to read it for awhile. I will though make sure you know from the second you are born. So here it goes…
You are the luckiest girl in the whole wide world. Your father is one of the best human beings in the world. Your Daddy loves you so so so much and does so much for us already. I want you to know how much your Daddy does. He never lets me lift things, ever. He will take more bags, more items and more trips so I don’t have to. He opens the car door in the freezing cold for me every.single.time. He will tickle my arm every day because he knows I love it so much. He always tells me I’m beautiful. Every time I get ready for the day, he walks into the room and kisses me on the forehead. He lets me drive the nicer car because it warms up faster and drives better… even though he drives longer and deals with traffic. He is a man of his word and works harder than anyone else I know. He appreciates the small and big things I do and always lets me know. He is a worthy man that will always guide and direct you to our Lord. He makes the best food and loves to cook for us. He doesn’t complain, ever. He won’t eat until everyone has eaten, to make sure everyone is taken care first. He helps clean, cook and shop all the time because he doesn’t believe in gender roles. He doesn’t care what people think of him when he pushes me in a grocery cart when I’m tired, just so I don’t have to walk. He is the first person everyone calls for help because everyone knows they can count on him. Daddy loves you so much already, anytime he leaves he always kisses mommy first then you and that is the same when he comes home. He always makes sure we are healthy and setting out my prenatal vitamins. He is a man who will always take care of us. He will never let anything or anyone break our family. He will always put you and I first, because that is who he is. Baby girl, your daddy has sacrificed so much for us, so so much. When he did.. he didn’t even flitch, hesitate or debate, it was a hard decision he made that most wouldn’t of done.. but he did it. Because he loves me, you and our eternal family that much. One day you will understand how much. Always remember your dad is the best man in the world and will love you more than any man will. Always listen to him as he will have your very best interest at heart. Look at him for an example when choosing a young man to date, because he is the perfect example of how a man should treat a woman. Your Daddy isn’t perfect, but the best part about him is that he isn’t too prideful to see it and he will always push his feelings aside to apologize for his part. He will always make things right with you and never leave things in state they shouldn’t be. He will love you unconditionally, no matter what mistakes you make or how mad you get at him. He will never judge you, cold shoulder you, misguide you, hurt you, mistreat you, leave you, not take care of you or make you feel small. He will always be there for you, so hold onto him as tight as you can.
Baby girl, you are the luckiest girl in the world to have your Daddy.
Always know we love you and can’t wait to meet you.